Oh my, let me make sure I'm very clear on this. I am NOT asking this in order to use it on senior girls graduating from high school. I only wanted to make the comparison about the political correctness of dialogue. With an overweight teen girl, you don't say "suck in that gut", you ask them to turn a bit to one side or the other to slim the waist and make sure in the consult that they know about how different colors have slimming effects. You also don't say "stick out your chest" to a lovely young lass; rather, you say, "arch your back a bit" and you get the result you want. Most teen girls love it when they look thinner and when their breasts look larger than they really are.
So, don't think I am going to ask a teen graduate to let me "tweak" her or even suggest it's appropriate for a senior photo session. No, no, no!!
I hope I didn't mislead anyone in the way I worded my message!
See? It's all about wording....LOL