Model wanted bondage - wife said "absolutely not"

[Doug_Lester]

Rule number 1 - Keep the wife happy.
Rule number 2 - See rule number 1.

[Doug_Lester]

"Dragons be there"!

[telcoman]

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Bondage is about trust, and boundaries and exploration. It's about sensory gratification and testing nerve ending response. It's about a mind come. It's been called "the thinking person's sex".

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David,

I'm not quite sure how to word this and have it come out right but I think your explanation has provided the best reason yet for me not to participate in a bondage shoot. I have the utmost respect and love for my wife. I don't want to share a trust and boundaries/exploration experience with a stranger (even simulated for a photo). Those experiences have already been reserved for one person only.

Thanks so much for the explanation.

David

[stevenD]

one?

[David Bunch]

Maybe the wife "get's it" better than you thought.

David

[telcoman]

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Maybe the wife "get's it" better than you thought.

David

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Yeah, I think she does. I hate it when she's smarter than me. [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wink.gif[/img]

David

Honestly I take offense to the fact that having a trusting,honest relationship with my wife and best friend makes you deem me less of a man because I treat her with respect and trust....its easy to be deceptful and dishonest...takes a real "MAN" to make a complete commitment to a relationship. Its called trust and honesty,,,,you should look them up in a dictionary!!

[girlfair]

That, and I'm not that good a liar. She sees right through em' [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/crazy.gif[/img].

Seriously, I'm just one who's unable to lie to my wife. If she don't know about it, I ain't doin' it. I think it's worked out pretty well, because she knows she can trust me, she lets me do pretty much whatever I want [img]/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif[/img]! Best of both worlds. Honesty....who'da thunk!?

[stevenD]

no offense meant, come over here lemme rub your noggin, I was just tired of all the Dr, Laura advice and I was looking for one other guy to stand up and say

"I do whatever the hell I want"


where's JP?

[Doug_Lester]

Any idea of the long term, ofen life long costs involved in a divorce? That sort of 'macho' can cost a hundred thousand bucks over a period of years. With your attitude, you'll probably find out some day.