If we separate the wannabes from the photo-gurus, then how will the wannabes ever grow? Odds are against the gurus frequenting the wannabe forum. So, the only way for the wannabes to grow, is to frequent the guru forums, ask for honest feedback, grow some thick skin and take the advice given. If you only want the top 3 things that will improve your photo, then simply ask for the top 2 things that will improve your photo.
Toni